Archive for April, 2008
South Pacific at the Beaumont Theatre in Lincoln Center

Loretta Ables SayreThis is such a thoroughly beautiful and enjoyable production of South Pacific and it deserves all of the wonderful reviews it has received. This is a great musical done superbly.

We saw this last night and we woke up still singing the wonderful score. This photo of Loretta Ables Sayre, terrific as Bloody Mary, was taken outside after the performance.

If you are not in New York, I would urge you to come to New York City just for this show. They have just extended the run “indefinitely”. See it very soon, before the production gets “old”. There are many reviews available on line. This is the link to the New York Times Review. Buy your tickets from the Beaumont Theatre box office in person or on line.

The Lincoln Center Plazas and the Julliard Building are all surrounded by “work sheds” during  the current extensive renovation, so access to the Beaumont Theatre  is through a makeshift, well lit path between construction.  

Passover: The Experience (Better Than the Movie)

The anticipation of Passover starts a month in advance, usually with the arrival of Purim which can be called Passover’s raucous little sister. At Purim there is purposefully no sense of order at all and so, by some ancient and wise logic, we start the planning of the Seder in the midst of the pleasurable disorder of Purim. Seder means “order” in Hebrew, and there are 15 steps to the celebration of the traditional Seder. Here are my 15 steps to the entire holiday experience.

  • Figuring out in whose home the Seders will be 
  • the guest lists: trying calculate how many are actually coming and how many can possibly fit inside your home
  • the menu: traditional vs new dishes
  • the house cleaning which can feel like your are preparing to move 
  • buying food and figuring out how to fit it in the fridge
  • donations of food and funds for the needy
  • planning a gift for the child who “finds” the hidden piece of Matzah needed to complete the Seder and express concretely the idea that what is lost or broken will be restored. The outcome of the Matzah search is completely rigged and all children will get a gift
  • the arrival of the excited guests
  • cleaning up either spilled wine, juice or something that breaks
  • finding one more vase for the lovely gift of flowers
  • the pleasure of all being together around the table celebrating the Seder with song, questions and laughter. It is our family custom to ask the Four Questions in as many languages as possible and this year a Muslim Iraqi quest asked them in Arabic, a first for us.
  • guests helping to disassemble the extra tables and chairs (thank you, again)
  • Matzah Brie for breakfast(!)
  • blessed friends who  invite you for another Passover meal to spend together during the week of the holiday
  • and going out for Pizza to celebrate the end of the holiday and the return of such a humble food we can take so for-granted…bread.

The sum of this effort is so much more than any of the parts: a great sense of wholeness,  a renewal of connectedness to family and friends, a renewal of the connection of tradition and the present, the presence of Spring and the feeling of inner freedom.

Happy Passover

WritopiaLab, an Extraordinary Community of Young Writers

GothamGirl received this letter and invitation from WritopiaLab’s award winning Director, Rebecca Wallace-Segall. If you are not familiar with WritopiaLab, be sure to visit WritopiaLab’s site and mark your calendar for this event, if you will be in New York City on May 18.

I have attended past public readings of these young, articulate, insightful writers and can tell you they will move and surprise you with their accomplishments as writers.  

 “Dear family, friends, and fans of local young writers,Writopia Lab’s writers have been arduously developing short stories, memoirs, op-eds, scripts, and poetry over the past six months and are thrilled to finally share them with you at Bryant Park on Sunday, May 18th, from noon to 3:00pm! Please find an invitation attached to extend to anyone you wish. There will be seating for over 100 and a tent set up in case of rain. This is a celebration. Our middle and high schoolers have garnered more regional and national awards from Scholastic’s Art & Writing Awards than any other group of students in the country. And the amazing truth is this: Even those who did not win regional or national awards this year submitted exceptional work. All of us at Writopia Lab are so proud of each and every one of our writers.Our youngest writers (ages 9-13) will read from noon to 1:30pm. Our teens will read from 1:30-3:00pm. Please feel free to come and go as you wish. “Bryant Park is between 6th Avenue and the main branch of the Public Library, between 40th and 42nd streets in Manhattan.

Gianni Longo, in A Guide to Great American Public Places, called the park:

“…one of the most sensual, graceful open spaces in New York City.”

The park’s site includes a webcam.

The Horace Mann School Scandal of Values and Morality

The elite New York private school, Horace Mann, is the focus of an excellent expose in New York Magazine. The most shocking aspect is the amount of outright pure racist and anti-woman  hate the article exposes as seemingly tolerated, and even defended (!) by some on the Board of Directors, administration and students.

The school’s website states the school’s purpose and focus:

Horace Mann has changed in many ways but remains steadfastly dedicated to five core values: The Life of the Mind, Mature Behavior, Mutual Respect, A Secure and Healthful Environment, and A Balance between Individual Achievement and a Caring Community.

If there is any truth in the article it would mean that the Horace Mann School has utterly failed in achieving it’s own stated goals.

This brings up some important issues that go far beyond the shockingly bad behavior of a privileged elite that sees itself as entitled to be served and catered to no matter what it does or says.

First: How and why did the City of New York help fund a wealthy private school by issuing a bond when the public schools suffer? How dare they? How many other private schools have been helped this way? Why exactly, was this school helped by the city government?

Second: Look at how this group considers everyone, even professionals such as educators, to be their servants and “hired help”. And this is what they have modeled for their children.

Third: Isn’t there a relationship between the attitude and values taught by this elite and those who feed the extreme disrespect for women which we see in the media in this current presidential campaign? And they have DEFENDED racism as well?

Fourth: Why would anyone send a daughter to this school?

Fifth: How many other private schools behave this way?

New York City is full of wonderful, talented, smart and really goods kids who deserve a good education and preparation for the future. We must support public education as the cornerstone to a healthy, creative, productive society and a continuing good future. Public School should not be treated as an “entitlement program” to be disrespected and underfunded.

Parents should teach children the core value of respect for teachers by their very own behavior.

Money never buys class.

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Comment by NYCGUY:

A few years ago, while crossing Broadway on the Upper West Side, I overhead the conversation of a young boy and his father.

The child expressed a desire to copy the career of his favorite teacher and his parent replied that that would be an inappropriate pursuit.

To hear something like that and in such a neighborhood was utterly shocking. So maybe the esteem I had learned for Horace Mann was equally ill-placed. This is, after all, an epoch of an all voluntary armed forces subject to stop loss, which is nothing other than involuntary servitude, serfdom if one wishes to give it a polite name.

What really got me was the story inside the story about this prestigious private, tax exempt school getting a substantial tax free loan from the city’s so-called Economic Development Corporation, facilitated by the city’s corporation counsel under its preceding mayor for whom this chap remains a loyal business partner.

This perfectly legal transaction whereby EDC makes like the NYS Dormitory Authority for very high tuition K-12 private schools - parochial schools included - is a hallmark of the current mayoralty that just happens to have saddled Horace Mann with considerable debt.

Ostensibly the beneficiaries provide an undefined high level of scholarships and public service. Apparently, the private schools are better integrated than the city’s own public schools - which have no boards with any effective parental input - because, obviously, they’re creaming from the body of perspective students.

Lost in this is that public schools are intended to create an educated citizenry and that the city is using its federally capped industrial revenue bond authority to benefit elite institutions not subject to endless teach-to-testing while its own system has cut back capital expenditures for school renovations  and new construction. Is something amiss?

Maybe the Horace Mann students understand the “respect” they’re given does not accrue to their teachers or perhaps even the gifted scholarship classmates.

NYCGUY

Ellis Island “Visas For Life” Exhibit Opening Event

Ellis Island

We ferried out to Ellis Island. What a pleasure it is to be out on the water of the harbor on a cool, clear day. Although Harbor Seals have been spotted as far north as the 79th Street Boat Basin  this season, we did not spot any in the water that Sunday but enjoyed seeing the city, The Statue  of Liberty, and the soaring gulls and many Brandts.

Miss Liberty

Ellis Island opened a new, temporary exhibit on March 30, 2008, called “Visas for Life” which documents in photos, the extraordinary efforts of many diplomats during the Holocaust to use the power of their offices to issue visas for Jews fleeing Nazi control. They did this against the orders of their superiors and risked a high personal price for their actions. They saved many hundreds of thousands people from being murdered by their moral and courageous action. It is a very worthwhile exhibit. 

I attended as a representative of Remember the Women Institute and serve on the Advisory Board.

Visas for Life, Bill BingamBill Bingham Visas For Life

There is a wonderful portrait of Chiune Sugihara, the Japanese Consul to Lithuania and his wife, who saved more than 10000 Jews.

Many current diplomats and the families of rescuers, and a few survivors attended the opening event and their stories where told, and awards of thanks and recognition were made.

The Italian diplomat spoke so well when he said that “diplomats are not generally known for being courageous or brave but of hoping for a comfortable assignment”. Several family members of a Papal Nuncio who helped rescue many Jews travelled from Italy to accept an award in his honor and spoke with great warmth and emotion.  The niece of Raoul Wallenberg attended. The Swiss diplomat spoke so refreshingly frankly about what Switzerland had done wrong as well as right during the Nazi period. Seated next to us where diplomats from Germany. We spoke personally with Bill Bingham, pictured above, Hiram Bingham IV’s son, about the role of his father in issuing American visas and saving many people, and how this limited his father’s diplomatic career.

It was an event filled with good feeling, and extremely moving stories of how people can make an extraordinary difference by acting in good conscience. An event which truly affirmed the power of good in people.

Afterwards, the honorees, families, attendees and diplomats, waited on line with the general  public and ordered their lunch at the fast food cafeteria in the museum.

Welcome to modern America.